Many months have passed since I put pen to paper, so to speak. No matter, really, since no one reads my blog posts anyway. Truly, I write them for myself as I enjoy the process of creating, whether sentences or photographs or art journals and scrapbook pages (hey, those photos have to go somewhere, after all). Maybe a day will come when I will share this with my children. They tell me my stories are boring and that they have heard them all. They may be boring, but they most definitely have not heard them all.
This blog has had many incarnations, first as a scrapbooking blog and then a blog of random stories and then a photography blog. Clearly, I have no idea what this is supposed to be. However, telling the tales with photos to go along with them seems to be where this particular passion lies and where it tends to end up. So, this blog is evolving once again back to stories with photo illustrations. And, once again, I changed the name and the email address and the photo banner at the top of the page.
I am nothing if not flexible although I believe my children would probably disagree. We'll see how long this one lasts or if, once again, months will pass and the tales will remain unwritten.
Friday, June 1, 2018
Sunday, November 19, 2017
Stories from Behind the Camera: Turning Glass into Art
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| Float Boat by Dale Chihuly |
If you have never heard of him, first, let me thank you because it means I am not the only one who had no idea what a Chihuly was. Secondly, it also supports my theory that I do not indeed live under a rock. For the uninitiated, here is a brief primer in Chihuly:
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| Beluga by Chihuly |
| Five Orange Baskets in Glass (Chihuly) |
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| Red Reeds on Logs (Chihuly) |
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| Seaforms (Chihuly). There are several pieces in this study. |
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| Scarlet and Yellow (Chihuly) |
Dale Chihuly is a sculptor. His medium is glass. His creations can be mammoth or small. All are intricate. Some are colorful. Others are not. Some are plain. Others have impossibly tiny details. Whether you love him or you hate him, it is hard to deny that his work is amazing. It is certainly unique.
Chihuly came to my attention when the college I attended installed one on his pieces in the multi-story entryway of the library. The school sent out emails and publicity, printed photos in the alumnae magazine, and generally promoted this as the greatest thing since sliced bread.
Second confession. My response to all this was, well, "meh."
And then I saw it live and in person on a visit to my alma mater in 2015.
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| Clear and Gold Tower (Chihuly) at the Williston Memorial Library at Mount Holyoke College. |
But I returned home and forgot about Chihuly, utterly and completely, or so I thought. Oh, sure, I read an article about him in a newspaper, something about his employees suing him, but that was more my professional interest as an attorney than any real interest in the artist. The occasional photo showed up in my Instagram feed. A classmate may have mentioned the piece from college. Overall, though, I lost interest.
And then articles started appearing in the New York papers and online. The New York Botanical Gardens was having a showing of his work in various locations in the park. Hmmm. I was mildly interested. When I started seeing photographs of the pieces lit up at night, I became somewhat more interested. When there was less than a week left for the exhibition, I bought tickets and my husband and two friends decided to make the trek from Joisey to da Bronx.
[It was not a trip for the feint of heart or for people in a hurry as there was a football game about to begin across the street at Fordham University, but that is a story for another day - or not.]
And, in addition to the photos above, this is what we found. . . .
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| Beluga (Chihuly) |
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| Glasshouse Fiori (Chuhuly). There was an entire wing of the main building lined with fingers of glass, perfectly placed to blend in with the flora. |
| Persian Pond and Fiori (Chihuly) |
| Seaform (Chihuly ) - another piece in the series. |
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| Sol del Citrón (Chihuly) |
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| Sapphire Star (Chihuly) |
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Monday, October 16, 2017
Stories From Behind the Camera: A Childhood Dream
When I was in middle school, we were offered two options for studying a foreign language, French and Spanish. As my father spoke French, it, too, became my language of choice at the tender age of eleven. Although I have forgotten the names of virtually all my middle school teachers, the name of my french teacher stuck with me, Monsieur Dupuis.
But I never returned to Mont St. Michel.
Of course, the Kodak Instamatic had been replaced many times over and, therefore, the photographs of that remarkable, unique island improved accordingly.
During our tour, I began looking out the windows. I wanted to find that little structure on the beach, the one that seemed to be outside the walls of the fortress. Having no luck, I was about to give up when it accidentally came into view.
I remember thinking it was the quintessential name for a french teacher.
Monsieur Dupuis was known far and wide in the halls of our school for his rakish mustache and his popsicle stick constructions. He would collect the sticks from students who purchased popsicles and other such treats from the "canteen," the snack store that the eighth graders ran during afternoon recess to raise money for something I no longer remember. As the weeks and months passed, the secret project would grow. Sometimes students recognized it immediately as was the case when I was in the sixth grade and he constructed the Eiffel Tower.
The following year presented more of a mystery. It was not until the school-year neared its end that we discovered he was building a guillotine. He even added a blade made of copper sheeting. Monsieur Dupuis was gone the next year and we, his students, always wondered whether his threat to cut off the tongues of those whose pronunciation was lacking could have been the reason for his departure.
Monsieur Dupuis was succeeded by Miss Fitzgerald whose name did not conjure up images of the Eiffel Tower or Versailles. However, Miss Fitzgerald had something that Monsieur Dupuis did not - the desire to take her students to France. By this time, I was in the eighth grade and she planned on taking eighth and ninth grade students to Europe during spring break.
How I wanted to go. Although I was not one to beg my parents for anything (we will not mention the clock radio I desperately had to have when I was 12 which followed me all the way to law school), I made a case for being allowed to go on the trip. There was one small, itsy bitsy problem: My confirmation fell smack in the middle of the trip. This did not deter me from my mission to get on that plane. Eventually, my parents relented and I was confirmed weeks later in another church.
That trip began my love affair with travel. We flew into Paris and made our way around the city before venturing further afield, to the chateaux of the Loire Valley, to the beaches of Normandy and, finally, to what became my favorite place on earth, Mont St. Michel, the iconic fortress off the coast of Normandy.
I had only my Kodak Instamatic back then in 1974 and the years have dulled the colors of those 3x3 inch photos. Now, all these years later, I think my thirteen-year-old self did not do a bad job in taking photos of this amazing fortress. For some reason, however, this odd little picture was always my favorite. I always wondered who, if anyone, got to live in that little house outside the walls.
Years, of course, passed. I was blessed to be able to return to France several times - as a recent college grad and then, much later, as a wife with my husband.
And then children arrived and European travel became a pleasant memory with a hope for the future.
During all those years, though, I sang with a chorus in northern New Jersey. In 1989, the chorus went on a concert tour of Italy. Later, there were trips to Prague, China, Vienna, and Australia, but I had small children and sadly remained behind.
By 2014, however, my children were grown and I was ready to hit the road. In 2014, my chorus went to France. The plans included the beaches of Normandy, but not Mont St. Michel. My appeal to the trip planners was successful and thus came the day, exactly forty years after that first visit, when I returned to Mont St. Michel. A dream fulfilled at long last.
During our tour, I began looking out the windows. I wanted to find that little structure on the beach, the one that seemed to be outside the walls of the fortress. Having no luck, I was about to give up when it accidentally came into view.
Almost completely obscured by trees now, I could only make out the edge of the roof and the chimney as well as the small round tower at the corner of the walls. Nonetheless, there it was.
When people ask me where it is I would go on vacation, the answer, no matter where I had just been, is always France.
And I would give anything to climb the hundreds of stairs of Mont St. Michel yet again. By now, I bet that little building and the guard tower are completely hidden by nature.
No matter. I know they are there.
Prints of the 2014 photographs from Mont St Michel as well as other photos of France are available from echopointphotoarts.photoshelter.com.
Sunday, October 1, 2017
Stories from Behind the Camera: Home to Italia
Well, okay. The title of this post is not exactly accurate. I do not nor have I ever lived in Italy. I have been blessed, however, to visit this gorgeous country on three occasions, twice with my beloved New Jersey Choral Society
In 1987, I joined a small and fledgling organization that existed from concert to concert on donations and ticket sales. We were a tight family and, thankfully, we still are after 30 years. Back in 1989, our music director brought us a proposition, a concert tour of Italy. Another organization had put the trip together and then, it seems, abandoned it, but everything had been arranged and the tour company was searching for another group. We accepted the challenge.
Prints available at echoglenphotoarts.photoshelter.com
In 1987, I joined a small and fledgling organization that existed from concert to concert on donations and ticket sales. We were a tight family and, thankfully, we still are after 30 years. Back in 1989, our music director brought us a proposition, a concert tour of Italy. Another organization had put the trip together and then, it seems, abandoned it, but everything had been arranged and the tour company was searching for another group. We accepted the challenge.
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| Arragonia Castle, Ischia - 1989 (scanned film photo) |
This trip took us to Sorrento and Pompeii, to Ischia and Orvieto and Orte, to Perugia, Assisi and, finally, too briefly, to Rome. It was a whirlwind trip over 14 days with six concerts. The tour arrangements were terrible - nasty hotels, tiny rooms and, of all things, terrible food. Our group of intrepid singers and a few spouses, though, had the best time ever. Even all these years later, we still talk about it. In fact, there are six of us from that trip who still sing with the same chorus.
But no other concert tours followed those amazing two weeks in Italy.
Until now.
Since 2006, the chorus has travelled to many other places - China, Australia, Austria, England, and France. Now it was time to return to Italy. Two of us who went on that first trip were, in a sense, coming full circle, coming home.
Our trip took us to very different places - Como, Milan, Venice, Verona and the amazing Sirmione. The participants were very different. In fact, many had not even been born yet when we went on that first trip. Others were just children in elementary school. The performance was also very different - just one, in an ancient theater in Como. Singing Verdi's Requiem in that place with a professional orchestra was thrilling despite the incredible heat. Europe was in the throes of a heat wave and it was very nearly unbearable.
And yet despite the differences, the feeling of camaraderie and affection and fun was exactly the same. The players may have changed, but the song was just the same.
Back in 1989, digital cameras were not even yet on the horizon. Home computers had yet to hit the stores. Photoshopping was not yet something anyone would have even dreamed of. By 2017, of course, everything had changed. Taking, editing and sharing photos is commonplace.
So, here goes. . . .
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| Venice |
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| Verona |
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| Piazza San Marco, Venice |
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| View of Venice from the island of Giudecca |
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| Venona |
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| Verona |
Thursday, May 26, 2016
As Time Goes By
The last time I even opened my blog, pumpkins grinned fiercely and goblins roamed the neighborhood. Seven months have passed since Halloween and I sit here, astonished that my older son will be graduating from college in just two days.
On a warm sunny day, back in 1999, my son began his education adventure in our local elementary school. Toting an Arthur the Aardvark backpack and sporting velcro sneakers, he headed off without looking back into the kindergarten classroom that became his second home. Six short years later, he and his classmates - now friends - were essentially finished with reading, writing and 'rithmatic and moved on to the Middle School.
In our little corner of northern New Jersey, the Middle School and High School share the same building. The only ones who seemed to mind the fact that eleven-year-olds were running around the hallways with seniors seemed to be the parents. The older kids liked having the younger ones around, showing them where to go, laughing at their supposed stupidity.
Suddenly, three years passed and my son achieved another milestone, moving on up to the High School, after a completely unnecessary Promotion Ceremony. After all, the only difference between the Middle School and the High School is the size of the lockers.
And now he and his younger brother were both in the same building - albeit with different sized lockers. The elementary years were over and it was time to get serious.
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| Above- last day of Middle School Below - first day of High School Note that my kids are wearing the same shorts on both days! |
The first three years of High School flew by in the blink of an eye. Suddenly, parents were meeting to organize the post-graduation event, Grad Ball (I have blogged about that before here: Wonderment). Fundraising, photographing and construction took place over the course of fifteen months - yup, we started during junior year. But Grad Ball had an added advantage. We were so focused on the party that we were distracted from the event that the party was to celebrate - graduation. I have to admit, that was not such a bad thing.
Before we knew it, June 19th arrived. It was the hottest day I could ever remember and with graduation to take place outdoors, no one relished the idea. Promptly at 6:00pm, however, with the Ambulance Corp manning the cooling tent, the pomp and circumstance began. All I can remember is thinking that I couldn't believe the day had come and also hoping it would end very quickly. Did I mention it was the hottest day I could ever remember? It was so terrible that parents finally convinced the principal to let the kids wear shorts under their gowns instead of long pants and shirts with ties.
I have no recollection of that summer, the summer spent acquiring all the accoutrements of college - the bed spread and sheets, the lamp, the printer, the laundry hamper. I barely remember moving him in to his hot dorm on a Saturday in late August, of making the bed, of unpacking the clothes. Of the saying goodbye. But at least he graciously (okay, reluctantly) stood before the tree outside our home one last time before heading south to his future.
How these four years have flown. It is trite, but it seems like only yesterday that I took this photo of him in his High School class shirt, about to make the trip south. Yet, here we are, just two days from yet another graduation on another hot day in still another outdoor venue. This one will be packed with 4000 graduates, not 225. There will be no individual procession to receive a diploma. Those will be sent through the mail. It will be impossible from the stadium seats to pick out my son - still small in my mind - from the crowd of grads all wearing the same outfit.
But one thing will not be different. The pride I feel of raising two wonderful, amazing boys, of guiding them into college, of watching them bloom and grow will be the same. In the end, though, their success rests entirely on their shoulders. My husband and I only provided the means. They will have to do the rest. And my older son has indeed done the rest. He has been on the Dean's List all eight of his semesters. He added a second major during his junior year and completed all the requirements within the allotted four years, something many of his friends have not been able to do. He lived in an apartment and learned about paying rent and bills, about shopping and cooking for yourself, about becoming an adult.
When this weekend ends, my empty nest will be full again, filled to the brim with boys and all the stuff they have accumulated while away from home. I had gotten used to the quiet. I had gotten used to not finding teenage detritus everywhere. I do not relish that reappearing, but knowing that my boys are here, with me, for perhaps just a little while longer makes the mess entirely worthwhile.
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Saturday, October 31, 2015
Turn Back! Beware! It's Halloween!!!!!
There is nothing funny about Halloween. This sarcastic festival reflects, rather, an infernal demand for revenge by children on the adult world. -- Jean Baudrillard
Even though I have no children at home, no Halloween parades to march in and a desperate need to avoid candy, I love Halloween. It is, without a fraction of a doubt, the best holiday each year.
Why? Easy. It is a holiday without obligations. No family visits. No dinners to plan and prepare. I would say no decorations, but despite my lack of children, I still decorate for Halloween. I still buy and carve a pumpkin each year.
I still put out skeletons and headstones and police tape and witches and ghosts.
I love this day and night because it brings children that are not mine to my door. They are all cute and funny and sweet and charming and oh so innocent, no matter the age, no matter the costume. I love seeing these children because they remind me of the boys I once lead by the hand to neighbors' homes. Laster, I sent them out in gangs with neighborhood children and one parent or another. Finally, and sadly, I let them out in the world to terrorize a neighborhood other than my own with friends I barely knew and certainly could not recognize.
My oldest missed his last opportunity to trick-or-treat as a high school senior (yeah, they do that around here) due to a freak October storm we called Hallsnoween. That was hugely disappointing for everyone.
Christmases and Thanksgivings and Independence Days all blur together as the years pass, but because costumes change, each Halloween sticks in my mind. Blond wigs, witch hats, parades at my grandparents' house with my innumerable cousins, and taking my much younger brother, dressed as SuperMan, around my childhood neighborhood are days and moments I shall never forget. I have little curled 3x3-inch Kodak prints with white borders of those events, stuck in a scrapbook, preserved forever.
The clearest memory of all, though, is the year I was my hero, Mary Poppins, carpet bag and all. Sears had great costumes in those days. They were real clothes, not the flimsy costumes they make now with string ties in the back. I had that carpet bag for years. I wish I had it still and have no idea of its fate. My parents forgot to take pictures that year. Making the memory was more important than preserving the moment. As it should be.
I got a rock. -- Charlie Brown (Charles Schultz)
Monday, October 26, 2015
Parenting - The Purgatory, Um, Blessing That Never Ends
The trouble with being a parent is that by the time you are experienced, you are unemployed. ~ Anonymous
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| Then and now???????? |
My oldest son is a college senior. Somehow, I thought he would never grow up and all the little problems of his tiny life would stay small. No such luck. Instead, they years flew by and I am sitting here wondering two things. When on earth did he go from diapers to driving? And how am I possibly old enough to be the parent of an adult?
Okay, so those questions will never be answered, but that hasn't stopped anyone from asking them and I know they have been asked for, well, a really long time.
Anyway, bigger kids - bigger problems. The time proven axiom of all parents. I mean, when they were three, we worried about chicken pox and potty training. Now we worry about them finding jobs, moving into apartments, and suffering the pain of significant others dumping them on the night before they go back to college. Yeah, been there - experienced that particular level of hell. Some worry about them moving home. Others worry about them not moving home. It is endless.
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| Why can't they stay this small and happy? |
At any rate, senior year must present a whole vast spectrum of anxiety for college students. I remember them. First you wonder how it is possible that those four years are almost over (yeah, yeah, back to time passing too quickly again). Then you worry that you won't find a job. You go through angst over attending the dreaded college job fair along with a thousand other seniors in your position. And then there is THE INTERVIEW.
(I confess that I didn't suffer through that particular senior purgatory. I applied to grad school which was a whole lot less angst-ridden. That presented a whole other set of issues that we can skip until the next kid becomes a senior since he has already made the very bad decision to follow his parents to law school. So, it was a misery delayed for three years, but I was familiar with the problem since friends and fellow dorm residents wallpapered the hallways my senior year with rejection letters. Seriously, there were thousands of them. Okay, hundreds, but it looked like thousands,)
So, one day my son calls, asking if he is supposed to button his jacket. [Insert long pause here while I try to figure out what the heck he is talking about.] Mercifully, an explanation follows that he is attending yet another job fair and he doesn't know if he is supposed to button his suit coat. Aha! Yes, button the coat. Off he goes, distributing resumes like fireman distribute candy during a Fourth of July parade - throw and run and hope for the best.
And then there is a miracle. An e-mail. From one of the businesses. For an interview. With a company no one ever heard of. No matter. He has made it past step one in FINDING A JOB. Then, miracle of miracles, another interview. Oh, joy! Oh, rapture! Oh, the stuff of nightmares!!!!!
Monday passes. Then, Tuesday and Wednesday. Thursday morning around noon, I get the call about the first interview. It goes something like this:
Son: Hi, Mom.
Me: How did it go?
Son: It took five years off my life.
Me (stifling laughter with every fiber of my being): Well, it is over now and you gained good experience.
Son: My life will be ten years shorter come this time tomorrow.
Me (covering my mouth to avoid making cackling noises): Mmmm, nnnnn, wwwwww.
Son: What?
Me: Nothing. Soda went down the wrong way. Hey, look, it is just an interview. Maybe you will get lucky on your first time out, maybe not. Maybe you will get an offer and then you will know it wasn't as horrible as your suspect?
Son: Yeah, mom. Right. By the time I find a job, I won't have any life left since I lose five years with every interview.
Me: Okay, well, call your dad and let him know how it went.
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| Or this small small and happy? |
At this point, I hang up so I wouldn't strangle myself while suppressing my laughter because no self-respecting mom laughs at her son's misery. And yet, we wise parents know that this particular misery tends to work out one way or the other in the end. It is a right of passage that all must experience - parents and kids alike.
He survived that first interview and the second as well. He will survive them all. The funny thing is that instead of looking at bumper stickers for ideas on where my children might apply to college as I did in the good old days, I now look for corporate headquarters as I run my errands, looking for places he can send resumes. Seriously, while driving to a farm stand recently, I noted all the corporate headquarters that have replaced the disappearing farm stands.
Yup. The parental torment never ends. It just moves on from little problems to big ones. Once a parent - always a parent.
And thank goodness for that. I think. Maybe. Ugh.
Because of their size, parents may be difficult to discipline properly. ~ P.J. O'Rourke
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